Making Your Dress Shopping experience one to Remember
July 15, 2011TV shows such as “Say Yes to the Dress” are more popular than ever right now. The gorgeous designer gowns are the main attraction, but there’s also an aspect of drama that seems to come along with the show. I never put much thought into who I should bring to these festivities other than my mom, but it’s something that’s very important to think about. Also, knowing the ins and outs of how to make your dress appointments all you want them to be is a key piece to take with you through the process. Take notes, and remember this is likely the next most exciting thing after getting engaged, you’ve probably dreamed of your dress as much as the wedding itself. Don’t let stress get in the way of making this experience wonderful.
When deciding who to bring with you to the appointment think about not just the people who are most special to you, but also the ones who understand this is your day. Friend’s who make the appointment about what they want are not listening to your wants and needs. If you have always wanted a mermaid gown, but your friend loves ball gowns, all you’re going to hear is their opinions reflecting the fact that they see you in a big pouffy gown. Make sure you choose people to come with you who will be honest, but who will also “ooh” and “ah” over each dress you put on. You should feel praised on this day.
Secondly, look for dress shops that will cater to you and your group. I have had experiences with dress shops that ignored my friends and I for about 20 or more minutes. We ended up walking around the store pulling our own dresses off the racks until someone finally helped us. Then the lady continuously told my friend every dress was her dress with no sincerity. I’ve heard great things about places like The Bridal centre in Calgary. You can even take champagne with you and they will serve it to you and your group during your appointment. You should feel pampered through this experience, you only plan to do it once, right?
Have a good idea of what style of dress you’re looking for before you go into these appointments. However, also keep an open mind because the professionals often know best. Sometimes what you pictured in your head isn’t what looks the best once you get it on your body. Just keep an open mind, and let ladies at the store do what they do best.
Lastly, just enjoy the whole ride. Try not to get stressed out, or worked up about the little things that may come up. You’re going to find that perfect dress!! Just like your Prince Charming, the perfect dress is out there too!
